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Letters from Frederick Lewis Dibblee

These were among the family papers of Frederick Lewis Dibblee junior. Frederick's brothers and sisters were Binney, Tom, Bessie and Jeanie. His father had died in 1888. His mother died in 1899.


Letters to his mother
Letters to his sister Jeanie



Letters to his mother

Eastney Barracks
Dec 29th 1893

My dear Mother,
I feel an awful brute not having written before after all the nice letters I have had from all of you.
Thanks very much again for all the presents. I am getting through all the provisions gradually, and cleared off a good deal today, as I had Mrs Geddes and Vi up to tea, it being my turn for duty again (every three days now: one never seems to get out of barracks at all now, and they seem so lonely when one is in them.)
I am sorry to say I did not have at all a very cheerful Christmas day. I was for Church with the men in the morning, and afterwards went to the Geddes for the rest of the day. May of course was still seedy, and altogether there wasn't much life about it, and I had liver owing to having been in barracks for three days and the thought that I was on duty the day after. There was nothing to be done too outside, as every place was shut up. I wish football would begin again.
Poor old Mother! What a sell about the newspaper rack. It was awfully funny, though, because Bessie (or Jeannie was it, who wrote in the same letter?) told me all about it at the same time.
I am glad that you liked the crumb tray. It looked neat, I thought, when I got it.
Nellie was awfully pleased with the things you sent her. She sends Love and Many Thanks for them.
I meant to write to some of the others, but don't feel very much like it just at present, so you give messages for me. Thank them all for their letters. Thank Toups [?] very much for the photo frames. Tell her I'm sorry to say one of the glases was smashed. I can't quite make out how one managed to get smashed without the other, the way they were packed.
Please also acknowledge receipt of one farthing each from Bessie and Tom. Also receipt of news (from all) about the Cat and Dog fight. You somehow all forgot to tell me whether the young man married the cat in the end, or the dogs or the wall or the girls, because in all real stories of that sort, the gallant rescuer always marries someone or else he dies - a bachelor.
Thank Binney for his letter, and say, as to enquiry for a suggestion, I would like a pair of Field Glasses, as after the 31st Dec. we have to wear binocular cases instead of pouches on our cross-belts. I shall have lash out therefore and get a case, and should for a pair of good glasses. It would be as well to get a good pair at once, as since one must have them, they may come in very useful sometime. They must not be too big too (more or less the size of yours, I should think) because they have to go in the case, which although it looks very large and big, is not really so. Goodby, I am about finished up for letter writing. Wish I wasn't on duty. Love to all.

Your loving son
Fred

Letter from Frederick Dibblee to his mother

S.S.Malacca. Transport No. 7.
140 miles from Las Palmas
29th January 1986

My dear Mother,
Tomorrow we shall be in Las Palmas, some time early. Robertson and I are doing duty days turn and turn about, and I am sorry to say it will be my turn on tomorrow. However, it doesn't begin until 10, so I shall trot on shore and have some breakfast and buy a grass hammock and some other things and come back on board about 11 (by a compromise) when Robertson will go off. I don't know how long we shall stop, but we shall take in about 240 tons of coal, so it must be a few hours. We've had a very decent voyage, and after the first day or so I have quite got over all sea-sickness. I'm sorry to say though this ship is not at all lady-like and rolls tremendously and continuously. Every few minutes everything goes flying about, and really it takes a vast amount of trouble to write a letter. I've got the inkpot jammed between two heavy magazines, and so for the present it remains rather stationary. At meals one has to simply to hang on with both hands to one's plate etc and eat as best one can with the third. The feeding is excellent. They've got a cow on board and so we've been having fresh milk every day. They've also got sheep and hens and other things are kept in ice. They've got an ice-making machine, which will be very greatful when the hot weather begins. At present it's only been getting gradually warmer, but not at all hot. Another great luxury is, we have hot rolls, and very excellent ones every day for breakfast. The sea has been quite calm, but the ship is too proud by far of her rolling powers to keep still. I find the magazines are quite useless for holding the ink bottle still, and I am now hanging on to it with my left hand while writing with my right. My hands are very filthy from cleaning my revolver; both yesterday and today we have been practicising over the stern at a towed bottle. Opposite me is one of the Nursing Sisters struggling hard to write. She is using a stylographic pen, so has not to hang on to the ink bottle. We have 3 nursing sisters in all. This one is the senior. an "older piece" [?] but very harmless. She has only just really begun to buck up after recovering from her sea-sickness. The second is not much to look at, and is utterly hors de combat, at present she is lying speechless on a chair on deck, and puts in no appearance at meals. The third is rather pretty, and has been very brave all through turning out every day, though meals were a great trial at first. She is just singing "Fiddle and I" up in the "Music Saloon" up above. The Music Saloon is our only smoking room and is only about 12 ft by 5 with a piano in it at the head of the Companion leading from the Saloon. The Captain of the ship (P.&O.) is a man named Henning. We have a retired Commander R.N. Heriz by name, as Transport Officer who represents the Admiralty. We also have a Ordance Store Officer, named Captain Hals, sent out by the War Office as a sort of Staff Officer, adviser or anything else that may offer to the Admiral. He has a certain amount of stores on board for the use of the troops, camp kettles, waterproof sheets, also a lot of wire instruments etc for erecting a wire telegraph. He seems a good chap, but is rather unused to the sea. I told you in my last letter Ithe one sent by the pilot to the Isle of Wight) that the Lieut-commander going out to the Widgeon had hurt his leg again and was to be put on shore. However they found they were not able to manage it, and so they are going to land him at Las Palmas tomorrow, whence he will return to England. By the way, his name is Burder, not Burden. Then we have a Midshipman named Stevenson, who shares a cabin with me. He is a very decent youngster, and it's not bad on the whole, but of course it's always a nuisance when one can't have a cabin to onself. There's nothing in the shape of a chest of drawers in it, so I have to get all my things out of my portmanteau, bag or tin cases as I want them. They are apt to knock about a bit too. The medicos consist of a Fleet-Surgeon, Fitx-gerald, a Staff-Surgeon, Gipps, and 4 surgeons Grant, Way, MacGregor and Sutton. With the bluejackets they've got a Chief Gunner and another Warrant Officer. The Midshipman belongs to the "Forts" and was on leave at home from the Mediterranean, when the ship was ordered round to the West Coast for ths show. Of course we know nothing further than we did when we left England, but perhaps we may hear something fresh when we get to Las Palmas tomorrow. I suspect the Admiral probably got up to the Forcados River about the 27th and has started in making preparations, getting carriers together etc. The Benin River up to Gwato seems the nearest way to Benin City, but I believe there is some objection to that route as the river is too shallow or something of that sort (I've just fished up a great piece of blotting paper or something out of the inkpot and inadvertently dropped it on my letter, which has caused the huge blot above, which please excuse). I expect the Expedition will start from the mouth of the Forcados River, and work up by boat to (probably) a place called Warrigi, west of Sapele, whence it will work through the Back through Ologbo to Benin City. This is pure conjecture on my part arrived at by studying the map. (I got one from Stamford after all, it was sent direct to the ship. Of course I expect it's not a very reliable one, and of course does not show very much. The whole place seems pretty well intersected with creeks. Lieut.Col.Hamilton, who started in the mail steamer Bathurst on the saturday before us, is I believe going out on Foreign Office Work, and will have really nothing to do with the Expedition which will be quite a Naval affair. The Bathurst will be calling at various places on her way out, and will only get there about the same time as ourselves.
Of course there will be no letters at Las Palmas to meet me, as we'll get out there as soon as anybody ourselves. I don'tknow when we shall get our first mail. I believe by our Admiralty programme our date for arrival at Las Palmas was the 28th yesterday. I don't know how it was calculated as they ought to know we can't do more than 12 knots, which speed we've about kept up to. I think they must have expected us to go straight out on the Saturday, instead of staying in the Thames that night. Our date at Forcados Rver is the 7th of next month. Now I think I've got through about all I've got to say, and owing to the small writing have done fairly creditably. The last part I have been writing since dinner, which proved as I expected a rolly meal. One rather amusing incident was:- Byrne had just poured out a glass of claret and had turned round to his servant to tell him to cork up the bottle when the roll came and the glass turned the neatest somersault possible over the fiddle and emptied itself on to the cushions. When he looked round again the glass had entirely disappeared and the bottle had to be uncorked again.
I am engaged in making a tracing and copying of the interesting part of the Stamford map so as to have a small portable copy to carry about with me. It's rather a long job and rather arduous owing to the vagaries of the ship.
And now goodbye and love to all of you.

From your loving son
Fred

Letter from Frederick Dibblee to his mother



Letters to his sister Jeanie

Home
21.12.96

My dear Jeanie,
Here is a letter for you at last. I must first of all inform you, that this paper's beatly stuff to write on and that you've no business to go to places where people have to send you letters this ----- well material. Also I now understand what Mother means when she says naughty words in her letters about pens, because I've made a trial of two of them and I cordially agree with her. Well - a Merry Christmas to you. Thanks very much for the photo. It is excellent. That being the superlative of good, nothing more can be said, but if more could be said in good English that it should be said. It is extremely pretty and so like you, dear! When I pay compliments, I do it thoroughly, no half heartedness about me, you know. Besides there are so few things I can pay, bills, I mean, and then again, my pay is so small.
I have come home till Wednesday week, all I could manage to get, as we are so short of subalterns to do duty and we have to take turns. I arrived last night at 8.30, having started at 8.50am. Being Sunday, could only get a slow train from Portsmouth, and then had about 3 hours to wait in London.
At present, have got no present to send. Have found nothing that I can think of for you. Pray, let me know what you would like sent. Scent? (Curious the way my pen will go and underline words). Went into the city with Mother and Bessie today, while they did shopping. Rather foggy here and pretty cool too, freezing. Tom has just come in, looking like a blackamore. Binney also returned, and dinner will soon be ready, which will give my brain a rest from the tremendous strain under which it is labouring in order to find something to say. Perhaps afterwards I may be able to go at it like a giant refreshed with wine and find something.
It's now tomorrow morning, and I'm in the smoking room, writing with one of Binney's pens, which are infinitely preferable. Binney and Tom are of course out. Mother, Bessie and JI have not ventured yet. This afternoon I'm going to sally out Didsbury way to do Sherlock Holmes and enquire into the Mysterious Disappearance of the Dales. Mother had written to them for Christmas Day and yet there has been no answer, wherefore it has been surmised that they are away from home.
I am still first for sea, but do not know when or where I shall go. With luck I may still hang on a bit as two more fellows are very nearly ready now. No result of the (c), (d) and (e) exam out yet. I should think it ought to come this week. Of course the matter is of no importance as it's only a question of passing, but I'm curious to know how I did.
I hear from Bessie your reputation as to thieving has now been cleared, so glad, you know, as I was beginning to have grave suspicions of you. I also hear from Toups [?] that you are not really the hardworking drudge you represent yourself to the family but are having a good time. What a deceitful little thing you are! However I'm glad to hear you are enjoying yourself. How do you manage to do it? What a thing it is to be endowed with youth and beauty?! That note of interogation got mixed up with the last sentence. Quite a mistake I assure you, nothing meant really, most unfortunate mistake, Don't know how I came to do it I'm sure etc. etc. Have any of the family told you I've been acting in private theatricals: the Geddes' got some up (in their drawing-room: where I say drawing-room but a bed-room behind the dining room, separated from it by sliding doors, and cleared for the occasion). I did my best to get out of it, but could not manage it no how. They took place on Saturday night, and I'm glad to say, were (I believe) eminently successful, which is a good thing. P'hill [?] has been asked to come down about this time, but at present his answer has not been received. Bessie wants me to inform you that the button hook sent you by Aunt Susy "is a nice little thing with a mother of pearl handle, but owing to the multitude of such articles which surround you at Florence, the Family is blooming well not going to take the bally trouble to send it to you, so you needn't expect it". The above is a message, at the cost of 5d a word (adjectives charged double). Pleas remit at your earliest convenience. In default, 7 days Hard Labour.
It's just been striking me that, owing to my small writing, you are getting more of a letter thn you usually get from the rest of the family. However, I will not charge extra, but will close with love from all of us, and may you not be out of house this Christmas season.

Your loving brother
Fred

Letter from Frederick Dibblee to his sister

Jeanie married in 1898.

Eastney Barracks
1 Oct 1897

My dear Jeanie,
Delighted to hear your news. Accept my most hearty congratuations and best wishes for the future. You must write and let me know the date or approximate date. Sent off a wire to you as soon as I got the letter. Came as quite a surprise to me, as I had not heard any tales out of school. This is my monthly ½ holiday (afternoon before monthly Marching Order Parade there is no Sea Service Drill) and I got your letter when I came down from the Battery.
Unfortunately I have got a punctured type (as a matter of fact it's the joint in the inner tube) and I have been mending it. Also I have had to pack up and send off some things for Dyer, who is coming back to London from Dieppe. So I have been so hard at work that my ½ holiday is slipping away and I must look sharp and get out. Must get over to Whale Island if possible and see a man about a football game tomorrow.
Please write a good long letter when you have a spare moment and tell me all about it. I had the pleasure of dining with him once at the Club, and I don't know much about him, so look to you for information.
Many congratulations again, and so I end

Your loving brother
Fred

Letter from Frederick Dibblee to his sister

Eastney Barracks
17 March 1898

My dear Jeanie,
I have been meaning to write to you for ages, but have always been haunted by the idea that the Hotel Minerva address would cease to find you some day, and it seems such a long time since you started.
Bessie sent me on a ltter of yours to Tom in which I learnt you are faring well and seem to be managing to amuse yourselves. Sorry to hear about the pimple:-

1. Little Jeanie's got a pimple.
Only that and nothing more,
Only that, it sounds so simple,
But my tears began to pour.

2. On her nose a little pimple;
Not so pretty, I should think,
As on her chin a little dimple;
(Let us hope it wasn't DRINK.)

The late Poet Laureate was once nearly lynched for writing something like the above.
I am also faring pretty well today, having a half holiday. I went out for a 15 mile stroll on a bicycle with Dyer round Fareham and back. There was a fair wind against us most of the way, but that only gave us the needful exercise. The weather and roads were most enjoyable.
I find that I may expect you about the end of March. I am looking forward to your coming immensely and feel certain you will like a few days down here. The Geisha Company are coming down next week. This week we have the Carl Rosa people with operas. I saw Atkey at Southampton on Saturday after football, and on Sunday he bicycled over and had lunch and then cycled back. I am suffering a bit from a bad thumb received at football, but have managed to get through two games with it. Next Saturday's game is at Upper Clapton and I have decided not to go, as it's an awful business getting up to the other side of town, and they will probably only play a scratch team scarcely Trojans at all. Besides I'm going to lie low after a bit after my Levee jaunt at the beginning of the month.
While up in ton I went and loked up the Forsters and went with Mabel to the Army & Navy Stores where I expended much of my hard eaned emoluments under the disguised name of Wallace Esq 13420 (or some other number).
Let me know as soon as you have made definite plans about returning to England, and state probable date of arrival in Southsea, giving full particulars as to height, age, sex, whether married, very much married or unmarried, state of health, and if you are subject to fits. Are you temporate? Also please let know what your ideas are as to the sort of roof that will shelter you (will a cabman's do?)
Had a line from Bessie when she sent on your letter; didn't say how she liked her time at Swansea: Binney had taken her to see "Candida" by Bernard Shaw (same company as "the Doll's House".) She apparently liked it very much. The Parrys went with them. Thank Goodness it is Lent, and so one is not bothered about the last dance and the next dance etc when one puts one's nose out of the Barracks for a moment. Am still slaving away at the Sea Service Battery mostly examinations. Had a Gunboat (beastly day) last Tuesday fortnight (day before the Levee) and have got another ext Tuesday and probably one the week after. Only two more football matches.
Best love to Harry and say I'm glad to hear that his hair has been cut. Hope his moutache was not cut too, makes it bristly

Your loving brother
Fred

Letter from Frederick Dibblee to his sister

Eastney Barracks
Portsmouth
22nd April 1900

My dear Jeanie,
Thanks for your letter: as you surmised the Baa Lamb was meant for Babetie's birthday: it was sent off in a great hurry, it was very foolish of me to make a mistake in the date, but I suppose I must have got mixed up with Bimba's 19th of Feb. and sent it off post haste on the 18th Inst.
I have been putting off writing to you as I have been hoping to be able to send you result of my exam, but that has not turned up yet, though I have been anxiously looking out every post for about the last fortnight. In a case last year, the postmark on the envelope enclosing result was April 19th, but this year they seem slacker. I feel dreadfully unsettled in consequence. Also my eyes are still bad and I am trying to save them as much as possible.
Just lost Jones, and got a new servant who commenced this morning. More worry for me as I have to fit him out with new plain clothes and get him some Mess Livery as well as white shirts and various other articles. I feel relly dead done and not up to much.
Alan McNab was over here dining last Friday: he married the sister of one of our subalterns (Dening) and is at home on a year's leave from India (he is in Indian Medical) doing duty at Netley: I rode over to Netley yesterday and lunched and teaed them back (about 18 miles away). The wife seems very nice. Colin McNab has a billet at Hythe (is married). He was specially promoted to Capt and is also (this in the Honours Gazette of the other day) noted for further Promotion a little later on.
Apropos of "Want", should like some German Dictionaries, which seem rather good, will cost 16/-. Will send details sometime. Hope you have a good time at Harrogate and that you'll be all the better for it.
Does Eleanor still do Acrostics? I got another with Vanity Fair last week.
Chin chin to H.P.

Your loving brother
Fred

Letter from Frederick Dibblee to his sister

Frederick's wife was Violet ("Vi"), and their children were Margaret (born 1904), David (born 1910) and John (born 1918). They did end up living in Sherborne eventually.

7 Marion Td, Southsea
Thursd. 30 Sept. 20.

My dear Jeanie,
I only received your letter when we returned today, so must rush an answer to catch you before you leave England. We went off on Thursday with Margaret to Sherborne. Margaret was due at schol on Friday, so we cycled to Yeovil and saw her off from there. The next day we went to Glastonbury and back - making about 40 miles. On Sunday we went a bit South and back and on Monday through Milborn Port to Wincanton and back by train - everywhere looking for houses or rather a house. On Tuesday we went by train to Tisbury with bags which we left at station and cycled to Fovant to the Haworths, whom we found fortunately at home and packing up. They have sold the place they bought in July and are off to India about next week - coming here on Saturday - and taking France on their way. We got our bags from the station and stayed Tuesday night at Fovant moving over to Chilmark to Ernest's (Vi's brother) for Wednesday night (yesterday) and cycling to Dinton, the next station on the line, returned here today. We were glad to find John very chirpy and well - he seems to have grown even in the week; more active than ever and talks more. His birthday is tomorrow and he at last becomes two. Needless to say we have not found anywhere to lve and our rent here has been raised, so we shall evidently have to go to the other place. David has gone back to his school - he will remain for the present at any rate. While up in London for the day to take him back on Tuesday (21st) I tried to hasten the authorities to pay me a little in the shape of pension or rather retired pay. I evidently managed to hasten them a good deal as I find on return that they inform I am entitled to retired pay - but they haven't given me any yet. We have given Margaret's school notice to quit at Christmas, so she will be at home. We went round ths evening to see Vi's mother whom we found very well, though of course like other people she has had her rent raised. Our idea about Sherborne was of course that David should go as a day-boy, but the whole country has got the disease of wanting to do their neighbour in the eye and prices are simply fancy and move up when you are in the shop (or den) of the estate agent. It is quite laughable in a way at times as moving about rapidly on push bicycles we were enabled to get at both sides of a telephone and heard solicitors we had seen a day or two before about some auctions arranging with an estate agent at our new end to fix a reserve price and asking him to bid against them (so that when we or others like us went back to them they could resell at a profit). Meanwhile the estate agent offers to do the solicitors and - us. Nice place to live and die in.
We have had very good weather and a nice time cycling. Hope you enjoy your holiday.

Your loving brother
Fred

Letter from Frederick Dibblee to his sister